Farida Balarabe, Barnabas Suleiman

Keywords: Cognitive dissonance, polygynous marriage, coping mechanisms, Kano Municipal

Abstract

Cognitive dissonance is a psychological state of discomfort arising from conflicting beliefs or attitudes, which can be heightened in polygynous marriages where personal desires for exclusivity conflict with cultural and religious expectations. This study investigates cognitive dissonance among women in polygynous marriages in Kano Municipal, Nigeria, a region where polygyny is culturally entrenched yet fraught with emotional complexities. This study explores the psychological experiences, contributing factors, and coping mechanisms employed by women in polygynous marriages within the socio-cultural context of Kano Municipal. The study adopts a qualitative approach, utilizing semi-structured, in-depth interviews with 20 women in polygynous marriages. Data were analysed thematically to uncover patterns of psychological dissonance, coping strategies, and socio-cultural influences. Findings reveal profound psychological discomfort, manifesting as shock, sadness, and feelings of inadequacy upon the introduction of a co-wife. Key contributing factors include cultural and religious expectations, jealousy, competition, and unequal distribution of resources. Victims employed coping mechanisms such as spiritual practices, behavioural adaptation, social support, and emotional regulation with varying degrees of success. This study contributes to the literature on cognitive dissonance and marital dynamics, offering insights into the intersection of cultural norms and individual well-being. It underscores the need for culturally sensitive mental health interventions and policies that address the unique challenges faced by women in polygynous marriages.

Author Biography

Farida Balarabe

Department of Sociology, Baze University Abuja, Nigeria

Email: [email protected]

Barnabas Suleiman 

Cosmopolitan University, Abuja, Nigeria

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